Every Minute of Every Day

Can you use shame or humiliation
to change people or behavior?
Yes and no. Yes, you can try.
In fact, if you really zero in on
an exposed vulnerability, you
could actually see a very swift
change.
Will the change last?
No.
Will it hurt?
Yes, it's excruciating.
Will it do any damage?
Yes, it has the potential to scar
both the person using shame
and the person being shamed.
Is shame used very often as a
way to try to change people?
Yes, every minute of every day.

Brene Brown